Finding Your Soulesmate Part 4

Last night on The Bachelor the women were sent to Santa Fe, New Mexico. They got to stay in an amazing sweet with a great view. The first one on one was handed out and given to Carly. Carly is one of my newest favorites because of her humorous jokes and gossip about the girls. At first I was unsure of her maturity because her first impression with Chris was her singing a song to him. Carly is for sure ballsy. Carly and Chris went to a huge house finding themselves meditating. A love guru was there to help them bond on another level. It was one of the awkwardest things I have ever watched on The Bachelor this season. They let out a bunch of sighs and breaths. Then things took a turn for the worst as Carly and Chris got a little bit too touchy. Chris and Carly had to strip down, thankfully Carly stopped at Chris’s pants revealing she felt extremely uncomfortable. They then went back to breathing techniques and shared a sweet kiss. Let’s just say that is a little too passionate for a first date in my eyes. As the night wound down Carly shared her past relationships lack of intimacy. She shared her emotional side saying she never felt desired or loved. I could feel for this girl, and I am pretty sure every woman in America can say they want to be loved by somebody. Chris even explained his fears on the women not wanting to live on a farm. I personally think that kind of reciprocal bonding is more special than the previous part of the date.

The next date was a group function with everybody except, Britt, leaving her with the one on one. The group date for the girls was going white water rafting. Jade actually fell out of raft and I felt bad, but boy was it funny. Then I found out she had a disorder where she gets really cold at normal temperatures. Then the night ended in having a party at the hotel. On Chris’s way to the party he ran into Jordan the drunky eliminated from week 2. Again a woman shows up after being eliminated, and gets a second chance with Chris. If I was there I would be heated if Chris allowed another girl to come back. All the women were down Chris’s throat for bringing Jordan back. Ashley again getting frustrated saying she is going to be a mean person to Jordan because she thinks being in the top 11 girls you should think selfishly. Even if I was mad, I would not be rude to somebody over something as dumb as that.The night was coming to a close and the night was getting too intense. Chris could not handle the pressure soon telling Jordan to go home. Now that is why when you are eliminated, you do not come back! Chris told the ladies, and gave the group rose to Whitney. I agreed with that decision completely because I believe Whitney is a respectable woman. Ashley had her annoying comments about Whitney getting the rose. I cannot wait till Chris no longer puts up with her Kardashian crap.

Britt had shared a few secrets on this episode saying she is afraid of heights. Britt broke down crying about her fear when the date card read the sky’s the limit. On the lighter side she admitted to not showering in weeks. That is plain nasty! If Chris finds out, he needs to drop her like a hot fly with her smelly self. Chris came in early in the morning to wake up Britt for their date. Carly had awaken and was livid at the fact she had to hear them kissing that early in the morning. I was in disbelief that Britt had makeup on during her sleep. Apparently she always wears makeup 24/7 just in case of a moment like this. That girl is plain old crazy. Britt’s nerves kicked in not knowing what the date was, until she was relieved at the fact that it was a hot air balloon ride. I cannot comprehend the fact she was not scared of that ride considering her fear. While the date was happening, the girls were gossiping about the fact that Britt enjoys being single, and is not in a rush to get married or have kids. If Britt is not their for marriage, she needs to leave. Britt came back after their date and shared how they took a nap and hung out in his room. All the girls just glared with a death stare, but Kelsey got dressed up and had a talk to Chris. Kelsey shared the death of her husband with Chris. Although, the way she told her story seemed to me as a huge lie after hearing it so many times. Kelsey shared how her story was so good, and that The Bachelor was about her story of becoming a new woman. That makes me conclude that Kelsey is a little bit in over her head and self centered.

 The week ended at the cock-tail party with tension rising at an all time high. Kelsey was at ease with her one on one she set up with Chris. Until Chris had an emotional breakdown talking about the tough conversations he had with people. The night then proceeded to be about Kelsey, and her confidence in where she was at with Chris. Kelsey is one piece of phoney baloney. Because of Chris’s emotional breakdown he decided he did not need a cock-tail party. As time went on Kelsey got a little frightened and had a panic attack. Then the episode ended in to be continued. It showed a preview of what seems to be a dramatic week on The Bachelor. They always got leave me on a cliff hanger. Until next week ladies and gentlemen.